Depression can make you feel like you’re walking around with a dark cloud over your head. Many people have feelings of sadness, hopelessness, and irritability — but depression symptoms aren’t the same for everyone.
While doctors know the signs of depression and how to recognize them, people sometimes hide their symptoms. You (or someone you know) could be concealing symptoms, whether you mean to or not.
Mental health awareness is key to finding help. Learn the hidden signs of depression so you can recognize them in yourself and your loved ones.
How Do I Know if I Have Hidden Depression?
Doctors can diagnose you with depression based on your behaviors and symptoms. But when you don’t show the same symptoms as other people with depression, it’s harder to recognize.
Also called smiling depression or high-functioning depression, hidden depression occurs when you hide depressive symptoms. If you struggle with hidden depression, you might seem happy and healthy, but you’re fighting a battle on the inside. You probably know the feeling of pushing down your emotions.
If you recently went through behavioral changes or feel like you’re always in emotional distress, you could be masking signs of depression. You could also have depression symptoms and not realize it.
How to spot hidden depression symptoms
If you feel sad throughout your day or lack motivation, you could have depression. Common hidden behavioral signs of depression include:
- Anxiety.
- Body aches, pains, and headaches.
- Changes in appetite.
- Hopelessness.
- Irritability.
- Losing interest in your hobbies.
- Sadness.
- Sleep issues and fatigue.
- Thoughts of death.
- Trouble thinking clearly.
Unexpected depression symptoms
Sometimes, depression symptoms aren’t obvious. You could experience these symptoms without knowing they’re depression indicators. Some signs of high-functioning depression include:
- Intense feelings — Mood shifts often go hand in hand with depression. Aside from feeling sad, you might feel more irritable, nervous, or panicked.
- Isolation — Living with depression often makes you want to withdraw from your friends and family.
- Personality changes — Depression can make you feel like you’re not yourself. You might seem quieter if you’re living with hidden depression, even if you were once loud and the life of the party.
- Physical sickness — Untreated depression can impact your physical health. It can lower your energy, change your diet, and bring on extra stress. These factors can weaken your body and make you sicker more often.
- Procrastination — With depression, you may struggle to find the motivation to do everyday tasks, leading to procrastination.
- Substance use — You might feel the urge to turn to alcohol, drugs, or nicotine, but these are not effective or safe ways to treat depression. Self-medicating for depression is dangerous. There’s help if you struggle with substance use.
- Weight and diet changes — Some people use food as a coping mechanism for depression. Others may not feel motivated to eat much at all.
What Causes Hidden Depression?
Hidden depression can impact anyone, but some people are more at risk than others. Your lifestyle, upbringing, and other mental health issues can impact how you manage depression symptoms. Hidden depression can happen due to:
- Childhood or past trauma — If you grew up in an environment where you didn’t usually express your emotions, you might carry that habit into adulthood. You might also struggle with hidden depression if you experience a traumatic event.
- Chronic illness — Dealing with an ongoing illness is stressful. The added pressure from sicknesses like cancer, diabetes, or chronic pain can lead to depression.
- Gender differences — Any gender can struggle with depression. But sometimes, boys and men find it more challenging to express their emotions. They’re also more likely to feel pressure to mask those feelings.
- Genetics — Like other mental health problems, depression can run in your family.
- Stigma — You shouldn’t feel shame about having depression, but mental health issues can have a stigma. You might worry what other people will think if you have depression, so you hide your symptoms.
If you fit into any of these profiles, you could be masking depression symptoms.
How to Manage Hidden Depression — Coping Mechanisms and Treatments
If you struggle with hiding depression, people might not know you need help. This includes your doctor. The first step to getting help is to talk to them or reach out to a mental health expert for help with your depressive symptoms.
Since hidden depression isn’t an official diagnosis, your doctor can help determine what type you have. They’ll perform a mental health evaluation to diagnose you. They might also give you a physical exam, run blood tests, and ask you questions.
It’s important that you don’t diagnose yourself with your hidden depression. Self-diagnosing is dangerous. To properly treat your depression, you should have an official diagnosis from a doctor.
Your doctor will recommend depression treatment for you based on your symptoms. For some people, talk therapy is enough to help. For others, antidepressants are the best way to treat depression.
How therapy helps with hidden depression
If you have hidden depression, it can feel scary to talk about your feelings. But hiding your emotions will only make your symptoms worse.
Talking to a therapist about your symptoms is one of the most powerful ways to treat depression. There are different kinds of therapy. The right method for you depends on your depressive symptoms.
Some of the most common kinds of therapy to treat depression include:
- Cognitive-behavioral therapy — Depression can make you focus on negative thoughts. Cognitive-behavioral therapy teaches you to challenge those thoughts.
- Interpersonal therapy — This helps you deal with outside stressors, especially from the relationships in your life. It looks at your issues and teaches you healthy ways to manage them.
- Mindfulness-based cognitive therapy — This therapy type asks you to take note of your depressive symptoms and accept them, not feel shame about them. It helps you observe the thoughts and feelings that lead to your negative thoughts.
- Psychodynamic therapy — This therapy method helps you to tell your mental health provider everything on your mind. It works because it makes you aware of your negative thoughts and feelings.
Your doctor can help you find the right therapist for you. You can also talk to your loved ones or search the web for a trusted online database of mental health professionals.
Using medication to treat hidden depression
If you have depression, you may have a chemical imbalance in your brain that makes you feel depressed. Antidepressants can fix the chemical imbalance and can leave you feeling happier.
There are several kinds of antidepressants. The best antidepressant for you depends on your symptoms. Your doctor will help you find the right medication.
No matter what method your doctor recommends for help with your hidden depression, there’s hope. You don’t have to suffer in silence.
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